When joining this page for the first time and asking for approval of your membership, you get an email from me asking you why you have joined, what are your qualities, your added values and what it is you wish to achieve.
If I receive no response to my email, I sometimes ask again (except when the email id is clearly a bogus email) and after a second absence of response I simply delete the request. This is not an elitist approach but simply to filter out unwanted spammers and crooks who have also attempted to use this site to ask things from members.
There are enough websites on the www, please do not spam this website. Ultimately I will complain to the admin of your email hosting IP.